Some years I learn a lot. Most years I am greatly reminded of things I already know. This year was a bit of a mix. But whether I learned it or already knew it, here are some things (as Oprah would say) I know for sure…
Being married for 20 years is an accomplishment to be proud of. (And not for wimps.)
The mama bear instinct to protect your child when an injustice is done to them does not wane as your child approaches adulthood. If anything it becomes even more fierce.
Parenting a teenage girl is also not for wimps. (And probably why wine was invented.)
I can run a 10K (and not die).
Middle school sucks.
Helping your child through the college application process is more stressful and overwhelming than can possibly be imagined. (And must be added to the list of things that is not for wimps.)
The joy of reconnecting with an old friend should not be underestimated.
The most wonderful blessing can come from what at first appeared to be an unfortunate situation.
High points of 2014…
A trip to Paso Robles to celebrate our 20 year anniversary (with lots of wine).
A crazy 3 1/2 day college tour road trip that covered 1,365 miles. (Yes, you read that right. 1,365 miles in 3 days. In a car.)
A girls’ trip to my family’s lake house in Michigan. We did nothing but lie in the sun, float on the lake, drink wine and eat.
A trip to Fresno (yes Fresno!) to watch Chandler run in the 2014 Cross Country State Championship race. He ran the race of his life and his team placed 2nd. A proud mama moment for sure.
My two favorite books in 2014
This is a beautiful memoir about the mother-daughter relationship told through the eyes of Corrigan as she remembers an around-the-world trip in her early twenties when she ran out of money and got a job as a nanny in Australia for a recent widower’s children. It is laugh-out-loud funny, heart wrenching and heart braking. At the end of every short, wonderful chapter I would say to myself (often while crying), “I wish I could write like that.” Trust me when I say, that you will love this book.
Station Eleven by Emily St. John Mandel
I loved this book so much. It shifts through time both before and after the apocalypse caused by a flu killing 99.9% of humanity. But it is less about the apocalypse and more about being stuck. One of the main themes of this tale (taken from a Star Trek episode) is “survival is insufficient.” That art must be experienced and appreciated and that we must live our lives to the fullest.
Here’s to wishing your 2015 is lived to its fullest.
Happy New Year!
(P.S. I’d love to hear about something you learned or loved in 2014.)