I took Marley shopping for school clothes this weekend. I was hoping to score some good deals from Labor Day sales. There weren’t as many deals as I had hoped. Probably because I’ve found so much joy in shopping at thrift stores and yard sales lately. It’s hard to wrap my head around a $13 Batman tee shirt as a bargain when I recently purchased three skirts, a sweater and a pair of pants for just two dollars more. (My new favorite game to play with myself is to calculate the cost of my outfit in my head…”Wow, this entire outfit only cost $12 including my shoes and purse. I am one hell of a savvy shopper!”) Marley enjoys my thrifty finds (favorite Vans hoodie for only $1.00 – you’re welcome), but does not enjoy thrift store shopping. Or yard sale shopping. Or, truth be told, shopping in general. But I digress… (which is really hard to do in just one paragraph)… shopping with her made me feel old. Like that mother who just doesn’t get it. We do not think the same things are cute. I really never thought I’d be that mother. I remember shopping with my own mother when I was 13 and the importance of having the right clothes. Cute clothes. Clothes that made me stand out in exactly the right way. (Wait, who am I kidding? I still feel that way.) So I bought her (mostly) what she wanted and was thankful that she becomes bored with shopping so quickly and didn’t really want much. I sent Dave a text from Hot Topic, “What’s worse? Dress code questionable clothing or a Black Veil Brides tee shirt?” His response: “Aaaahhhhhhh!” Aaaahhhhhh indeed.
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I am an avid thrifty shopper as well. And my girls are too thankfully. They too dig the name brands and I’ve scored tons on Aeropostle and American Eagle 21 stuff at our local G.W. (Goodwill) boutiques. Now about the choice of Hot Topic or Black Veil Bride… thankfully my daughters haven’t introduced me to the latter, yet. Oh my!
Hi Linda. It is fun to find great brand names at Thrift Stores isn’t it? A lot of times I find things new with tags. Be a good mom (unlike me) and keep your sweet girls inside the Goodwill and outside of Hot Topic!
Charlene. I may not always post, but I love your blogs. Wow, your article make me think…..my daughter is just 10. Wow, what a road I have ahead of us!!!
What a road indeed. And thank you so much Tammie! You are always so encouraging! xoxo